Studies show that children do best in
their school work when their parents are involved in the school. Parents who come to
school performances, open houses, sporting events, etc. show their children that school is
important to the family, and that they are proud to see the work of their children and
friends. But working families often encounter difficulties being at school for their
children’s events. What are some ways to handle this situation?
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Be
there. You may need to miss some school events, but
be sure to be there for the most important ones. Trade shifts with a co-worker, take
vacation time off, or arrange to work longer another day to make up the time. Your
children’s school activities are just too good to miss.
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A
family representative. If you
can’t attend, is there another way to show your children how much the adults in their
lives care about their school events and achievements? Can you send someone else to see
this special event? A well-loved aunt, uncle, or family friend? Maybe this is a good time
for your child’s separated parent to help out. If you can’t attend, be sure to
set aside a time for a report from those who did go to let your child know you’re
interested. You may want to send a camera to the event, so you have pictures of the
special occasion.
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Make
sure your child can attend. Even if you can’t attend, make sure the
children are able to get to school events. Carpool with another family, or ask a relative
or friend to drive.
Keeping
in touch with teachers: Most schools
have a special time for parents to talk to their child’s teacher about his or her
progress. This is your chance to find out how your child is doing in school. It is
important to take advantage of this chance for a one-to-one conversation about your
child’s progress. This is also a great time to ask your questions about the school
program.
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Can’t
make it to your conference time? Your child’s teacher will work with you to
find another time to talk. Be sure to cancel if you can’t make an appointment, as a
courtesy to all.
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How
about a telephone conference? If you can’t get to the school, maybe a
phone conversation with the teacher will do just as well.
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There’s
nothing like good news. No need to wait until trouble develops to consult
the teacher. A conference when things are going well can bring a good feeling to both you
and your child, and can help keep your child’s school work on a positive course.
What
about teenagers? Many parents attend school activities regularly
for their elementary school children, but their older children tell them it’s not
cool to have their parents at school. Don’t believe them. Studies show that
teenagers, like their younger brothers and sisters, do best at school when their parents
actively participate by attending and supporting school events.
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